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Sexual AbuseMost victims do not have physical injuries and this may be confusing. Although the child may not always be physically forced, responsibility always lies with the offending adult, not with the child. Sexual abuse is an exploitation of the need for affection. It exploits a child, developmentally incapable of understanding or resisting, often in a relationship of emotional dependence on the adult. While some "non-offending" parents may know and even support the offender's actions, many suspect that something is wrong but are unclear as to what is happening. The first reaction is usually shock and/or denial or to blame the child. It is important to note that children rarely lie about sexual abuse. Younger children do not understand what it is, and older children are often too embarrassed or frightened to talk about the abuse, let alone make up false reports. Disclosure of any kind should be treated seriously. While some fear that talking to children about sexual abuse will only frighten them, children need information about personal safety. Presenting age appropriate information sensitively and honestly can assist children in resisting abuse. The key is that they know that there is someone to whom they can safely turn for help, who doesn't mind them asking questions that may feel uncomfortable. Without counselling, the abuse may cause lifelong psychological damage leading to depression, anger, sexual confusion, inability to hold a job, alcoholism, even suicide.
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An adult who discovers sexual abuse of a child is required by law to report it to the police and child welfare authorities.
Adapted with permission from Abuse Bulletin #2. Voices for Non-Violence and MCC Canada Women's Concerns Committee. Top |
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